Flutterby™! : Ask the imam: My mom and Dad are married for 32Years now.My dad remarried without telling my mom 10years ago.My mom found out about it recently and is devastated and is in deep sorrow.How to handle this problem.

Upon reading there do not seem to be any really big differences between Christianity and Islam. They both suck. Adam and Eve, the Rib, God, Many Rules; looking from a distance they are the same.

So what is a good Muslim to do in such a fun world? Christianity became 'Christianity Light' and we can assume the same for Islam but it is sooner than we think.

In the mean time they have a lot of issues adjusting to Western Life.

"My mom and Dad are married for 32Years now.My dad remarried without telling my mom 10years ago.My mom found out about it recently and is devastated and is in deep sorrow.How to handle this problem." http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=15286 <-- This is one I always worry about - I'm serious ! :)

And its corellary "My husband has got married again. i am finding it very hard to cope with..." http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=11227 and a common problem: "I am married, 5 months pregneant,a second wife. can i have my husbands surname, and also change my name, as i am a convert. " http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=10877

"I do not want to marry a relative in india. How do i go about this and tell my dad i do not want to???" http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=14509 <-- Now I thought that was only an issue in Kentucky.

"How do I tell my wife to stop talking to other men." http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=13964 <-- Is that so different from the West?

Here is one I think about as lot: "Can a husband suck her wife's breast?" http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=13329

An altogether reasonable request IMO: "I am going to be engaged at the age of 17 and going to get married at 19 would it be acceptable if we started talking and meeting up without the whole marriage thing just to get to know each other?" http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=12446

And the classic problem for all religions: "In Islam anal sex and oral sex is allowed by doing this nikah remains valid or break. I am doing anal sex also she dosen't have any problem." http://islam.tc/ask-imam/view.php?q=11873

I think I just realized something; Islam is all about sex. And just as in early Christianity the girls are not that equal, should we say? In the end it will be the girls who force Islam to lighten up, just as they have Christianity, and in that note there is hope that these nut cases will go back to their homes and stop trying to kill or conquer everyone.

Ziffle of Mayberry